Sam (jevim) wrote,
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ColorQuiz

Why not... sometimes there are just odd quizzes that I can't resist. white_lace_bra posted her results from ColorQuiz earlier, and so I thought I'd give it a shot. Sometimes I'm surprised how eerie some of the phrases can be, but then I always remind myself that they're very open statements.

Your Existing Situation: Under considerable stress due to the demands of the existing situation. Trying to extricate himself from the things which restrict him or tie him down.

Your Stress Sources: Feels in an invidious position: that trust, affection, and understanding are being withheld and that he is being treated with a humiliating lack of consideration. Considers he is being denied the appreciation essential to his self-esteem and that there is nothing he can do about it. Disheartened by the lone struggle against difficulties with no encouragement. Feels he is getting nowhere; that, instead of the admiration he needs, he is consistently misunderstood. Wants to escape from the situation but cannot find the strength of mind to make the necessary decision.

Your Restrained Characteristics: Very exacting in the standards he applies to his choice of a partner and seeking a rather unrealistic perfection in his sex life.

Your Desired Objective:Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual trust.

Your Actual Problem: Needs to protect himself against his tendency to be too trusting, as he finds it is liable to be misunderstood or exploited by others. Is therefore seeking a relationship providing peaceful and understanding intimacy, and in which each knows exactly where the other stands.\

Your Actual Problem #2: Tensions and stresses induced by trying to cope with conditions which are really beyond his capabilities or reserves of strength have led to considerable anxiety, and a sense of personal (but admitted) inadequacy. He seeks to escape into a more peaceful and problem-free situation, in which he will no longer have to assert himself or contend with so much pressure.
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