Okay, Jevim. Why "Jevim Westhaven?" My fiancee had created a character of her own to place in the world of Valdemar. Her last name was Westhaven. I feel it is a fitting symbol of where I am now, and as arbitrary as any other name I may pick.
So, I am Jevim Westhaven. Or, I should say, my true self, which I hope to uncover here, will be named Jevim Westhaven.
I remember something from an English class in college. A book by Ursula K. LeGuin, I believe, named Tehanu. One of the concepts of the book (assuming I remember it correctly) is that names have power over us. And in the book, the most powerful bit of information is someone's true name. And only a few people had the understanding to discover someone's true name. Hopefully, together, I as the writer and you as the reader, we can discover my true name, and the self that goes with it.
p.s. No one ever said I had any coherent throughts...